BETH ISRAEL CONGREGATION NEWSLETTER
November/December 2023
Heshvan /Kislev/Tevet 5784
Rabbi’s Message
Dear Beth Israel Members and Friends,
This past month has been full of pain and tragedy. From the events of October 7 in Israel that led to an ongoing war to the tragic mass shooting in Lewiston, we are on edge, worried, angry, grieving and so much more. Indeed, we may feel helpless in the face of such horrors. We may feel burnt out, and just plain sick and tired. I know I’ve felt many of these emotions quite often over the past weeks, and I yearn to feel safe and at ease again.
In moments of despair, I’ve asked myself, what can I do right now as a Jew? A Jewish life centers around community, connecting with God through prayer, and remembering the past to help us build a better future. But at this time, I want to highlight two other enduring Jewish values that speak to us in this moment.
First, the necessity of acting in our world. Tikkun olam means repairing our world and acknowledges that while our world is broken, we are responsible for repairing it step by step.Action can take many forms, including a simple phone call to a friend, baking cookies for a neighbor, cooking a meal for someone who is ill, donating money, supporting legislation and organizing others to do so.
And second, is the necessity of cultivating simcha (joy). I realize it can feel antithetical to be joyous in the midst of tragedy, when we are weighed down with pain and fear. And yet, joy is just what we need to keep our spirits going. Cultivating joy can take many forms such as sharing stories, laughing at stupid jokes, baking, watching a funny movie, connecting with friends, being outside in nature, celebrating Shabbat in community and so much more.
We must not let the pain of the world destroy our spirits. If we act, even in small ways, and work to cultivate joy, together we can have the strength to rebuild our community.
With prayers for peace, safety and compassion,
Rabbi Vinikoor
Sabbatical
by Rabbi Vinikoor
As this is my 7th year with the congregation, it is customary in Jewish tradition to be on sabbatical for a period of time. I will have my sabbatical this year from December 11 through March 11 and for another three months the following year (dates TBD). I am so grateful for this time for rest and rejuvenation. With the help of the Beth Israel board, I have organized a fantastic team of lay leaders and visiting rabbis to carry out my various responsibilities at the synagogue. Stay tuned for more details as well as a date to reconnect with me when I return over cookies and tea!
President’s Message
by Marilyn Weinberg
Just a very short time ago we were gathering together as a community to celebrate our month of holidays starting with Rosh Hashanah and ending with Simchat Torah. Even a threatened hurricane didn’t diminish our delight in connecting with each other as we shared meals, music, and prayer. And then the unspeakable actions of terrorists, killing almost 1500 Jews, ended our joyous celebrations. As for many of us, we were speechless. What can we do? How do we respond? I felt a great need to be together with my Jewish community.
A zoom gathering followed led by both Rabbi Vinikoor and Rabbi Asch. Several days later we had an opportunity to join together with Rabbi Vinikoor in person, to pray, to sing and to share our sadness and also our fear of the future. Please let there be no more bloodshed on either side. On each occasion I felt comforted and enveloped in warmth by my community.
Later in the week, as I walked by Minnie Brown, I saw two lovely hanging plants, suspended on the rails of the walkway to the front door.Who left them? There was no card. When did they appear? Such a thoughtful and beautiful message of kindness left by friends who wanted to show their support. I felt some happiness amid some of those dark clouds that seemed to be flowing around us these days.
As we navigate through these challenging times, I am reminded of the importance of community; both our Beth Israel community and the larger community around us. Together, we can get through these difficult times. Over the next few weeks and months, I encourage you to reach out to others. Offer your support and friendship to those who are struggling. And don't be afraid to ask for help when you need it. Call a friend to talk or come to one of the many activities going on in our Beth Israel community. It will help. We do need each other.
Maine Jewish Film Festival
by Marilyn Weinberg
November 4–11
We are so pleased to be able to share information about the upcoming 2023 Maine Jewish Film Festival from November 4–11
This year they are showcasing new films from 8 countries/ 4 continents in multiple locations:
Portland, Bangor, Brunswick, Lewiston, Waterville, and Bethel.
Opening Night 25th Anniversary Celebration and Screening will be November 4 at the Portland Museum of Art.
Find the full lineup, schedules and ticket info at mjff.org
Willow Halpin's Bat Mitzvah
by Anne Schlitt
Please join us in welcoming Willow as a bat mitzvah! Willow is a thoughtful, empathetic, hard-working young woman with a talent for organizing people and making things happen. A freshman at Morse High School, she loves reading, traveling, hiking, listening to music, and spending time with her friends.
She's very engaged in her school, participating in sports (field hockey, lacrosse) and clubs (Interact Club). She's also a strong swimmer with Long Reach Swim Club, where she's competed since the age of 8. Willow has enjoyed working with Shoshi Gordon and the rabbi during this learning process and is grateful for all the support and friendship from Beth Israel over the years.
Hanukkah Music and More
by Marilyn Weinberg
Light the menorah for the first night of Hanukkah and then come to the Bowdoin College campus to add to your celebration.
Join for conversation, music, and fried treats with The LeeVees as they perform songs from their Warner Brothers released record titled Hanukkah Rocks and much more. Creator of NPR's Tiny Desk concert Bob Boilen declared it "the greatest holiday record of the past 20 years." Musicians Adam Gardner (Guster), Dave Schneider (Zambonis), Shawn Fogel, Daniel Saks and Tim Walsh will be featured in a roundtable conversation with Rabbi Carolyn Braun and Professor Margaret Boyle about Judaism in pop culture, Hanukkah through song lyrics and across languages.
The LeeVees are a rock band from New York City. Gardner and Schneider thought it would be fun to form a rock band, a Jewish one, that only wrote songs about Hanukkah, because there was a dearth of contemporary songs about that holiday. It first came to prominence near the end of 2005 with its debut album. After realizing its initial approach was rather narrow, it continues as a band with a strong Jewish identity.
The event is co-sponsored by the Harry Spindel Memorial Lecture Fund, the Jewish Community Alliance of Southern Maine, the Rachel Lord Center for Religious & Spiritual Life, and the Latin American, Caribbean and Latinx Studies program.
Tickets are free but registration is required. Register at: bowdointickets.universitytickets.com/w/event.aspx?id=1444
Community Hanukkah Celebration
by Marilyn Weinberg
Get your menorah and candles ready and save the date as we gather together at the synagogue on the third night of Hanukkah. We are still in the planning stages, but you can guess there will be singing, menorah lighting and some fried treats to share.
Stay tuned to your weekly emails as final details will be shared.
If you are interested in being on the planning committee or if you have ideas to share please contact Marilyn Weinberg at info@bethisraelbath.org
Minnie Brown Renovation
by Marilyn Weinberg
We signed a contract! On October 20, the intrepid renovation committee members, Marty Fox, Peggy Brown and Marilyn Weinberg met with Peter Bethanis, our architect, and Brent Poulin, from Poulin Construction, to sign a contract and finally begin the Minnie Brown renovation project. Work should begin in early November. We will give you regular updates throughout the coming year.
Social Action Committee Update
by Phyllis Wolfe and Peggy Brown
In October, the Synagogue’s Social Action Committee participated in Bath’s Window Dressers event. Window Dressers brought community volunteers together to improve the warmth and comfort of interior spaces, lower heating costs, and reduce carbon dioxide pollution by producing low-cost insulating window inserts that function as custom, interior-mounted storm windows. Twenty-five families received 140 window inserts!
Some of us wrapped, taped and finished inserts.Others brought food for the volunteers. Shout outs to Thyle Shartar, Kristin Propp, Jill Standish, Marty Fox, Elinor Rosenberg and Phyllis Wolfe for their volunteer efforts.
Next on our agenda is promoting a Beth Israel Climate Action Team that will work to confront the climate crisis and take action together. We’ll involve children who attend our Hebrew School and even some high school students.It’s going to take all of us on all fronts in a variety of ways working together. Need more convincing? Then watch this short video: www.theenvironmentexcuse.org
If you are interested in joining the Climate Action Team and representing Beth Israel Congregation in this effort email socialaction@bethisrealbath.org
In addition, the Religious Action Center of the Reform movement is having a webinar on November 16 at 5:00 pm. Tomás Carbonell, who is a leader in the Office of Air and Radiation at the EPA, will speak on cutting carbon emissions. The OAR is key to creating strong standards.
The RAC’s campaign leaders will share the work we have done this year to show public support for climate regulations, and we will hear from the EPA about the next steps in their efforts to cut climate pollution.
All are welcome, regardless of your experience or any actions you’ve taken with the RAC’s Power for Purpose Campaign. We need a full Zoom room to show EPA leadership the support they have for bold action on climate. Show your support by just showing up.
Register today to secure your spot for this urgent opportunity to advocate for climate justice.
Kulanu
by Joanne Rosenthal
Beth Israel is proud to be participating in ADL’s Kulanu: Synagogues in Action Against Antisemitism!
We are part of a network of hundreds of congregations across the United States and Canada committed to the critical work of combatting antisemitism and hate. With rampant antisemitism and hate on the rise, Kulanu empowers us to address these issues using a whole-of-society approach through self-driven programming, expanded incident reporting, and community mobilization.
ADL’s Kulanu Program is national in scope, but local in our focus, guiding us to forge formative relationships in our community through collaboration and bridge building between our synagogue and our neighbors.
Kulanu Working Group Meeting: October 31 @ 5:00 pm on zoom. Contact Kulanu@bethisraelbath.org to join this group.
There will be an ADL Kulanu kick off program webinar: November 2 at 7pm on zoom. This will help us understand program expectations and connect with the regional cohort around collective goals. Register at adl.zoom.us/webinar/register/WN_-ffUkjPwSmqgO19YjnQF2g
Join Kulanu congregations from across North America on Thursday, November 16 at 7:00 pm for a virtual learning session and text study marking Kristallnacht, featuring Rabbi David Wolpe, ADL's Rabbinic Fellow. This session will reflect on the events of Kristallnacht through the lens of Jewish thought leaders and foundational texts, offering hope in the face of rising antisemitism and hate today register at app.box.com/s/e2sgqyow0fpdnpf3b0cucd05axa8auan
Security Update
by Peggy Brown
The events of recent weeks have been on all our minds and put us on edge. Members of the congregation have been asking about Beth Israel’s security measures. While we have been building our security and safety protocols and routines over the past five years, we are always looking for ways to improve. Recently we surveyed other synagogues in southern and central Maine to compare notes. Our security measures are completely in line with what other congregations are doing. We follow the recommendations of the Secure Community Network, CISA, FEMA and the Department of Homeland Security.
On October 17, the Beth Israel Security Committee met with 2 FBI Special Agents who had reached out to us as part of their effort to establish relationships with members of the Jewish community throughout Maine during this time of increased tension. The two agents reviewed our security protocols, took our questions, and filled us in on what the FBI knows about hate groups in the state of Maine.
We were assured that there are no current threats to the local community. While antisemitic threats, language, and misinformation is rising, there have been no incidents in Maine at the time of our meeting.
They encouraged us to report to the FBI even seemingly small things if they cause us some concern or unease; relating to us how those small "pieces" often help in developing a bigger picture.
They fielded questions from us regarding the role of local PD and the kind of information they have. While our local police department has been supportive, the FBI keeps an eye on the bigger picture of what is happening state and region wide.
In general, they were impressed with our security protocols and felt that we were taking the necessary precautions to keep our members safe.
What are these precautions?
Off duty Bath Police Department officers hired as Security Detail for high profile gatherings
Greeters for events and Hebrew School screen admission to the building and serve as watchful eyes and ears. They also make a connection with all who enter using “the Power of Hello”.Simply saying hello can prompt a casual conversation with a new person, providing an opportunity to establish a connection.
Registration required for large events
Doors locked once services (or Hebrew School) begin. Only known persons granted entry.
Exterior video cameras are operating at all times. Interior monitors allow us to see who is approaching the building.
At services and other gatherings, we are incorporating activities which allow us to strengthen our personal bonds and get to know one another.
There is more we can and will do. We need to improve our synagogue building so that it has more exits and better accessibility.We need to practice emergency routines and protocols so that they become ingrained and automatic.We always need more volunteers to help out as Greeters. Here’s a link to sign up for more information.
Hebrew School
by Marilyn Weinberg
Our wonderful Beth Israel Hebrew school started off this year in a new space; our synagogue building. With the support of our dedicated parent volunteers and our teachers led by Rabbi Vinikoor, our students adapted beautifully. Using every available space (including outside), Jewish and Hebrew learning has been flourishing. In addition, we have our largest B Mitzvah class taught by Shoshi Gordon, talented Hebrew school teacher, a favorite Beth Israel B mitzvah tutor and terrific senior at Bowdoin College majoring in English and Education. Thanks to all who have made this transition successful.
High Holidays
by Marilyn Weinberg
It was so lovely to gather in person for our special Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur services this year to welcome in year 5784.Although a hurricane tried to get in our way, and day one of Rosh Hashanah was virtual. On day two Rabbi Vinikoor led us in services that were filled with prayer, music and the inclusion of so many community members. With family services and an outside tashlicht service with Shofar blowing, and of course our amazing potluck luncheon and break fast, our high holidays this year were uplifting and memorable.
Progressive Sukkot Celebration
by Marilyn Weinberg
The weather was clear and the skies were blue as we visited three different Sukkahs in Bath for our community Sukkot celebration. We started at the Finn-Vinikoor home to begin our Sukkah blessings with the lulav and etrog and enjoy some delicious appetizers. We enjoyed soup and salads as we progressed to the Horowitz-Gersh sukkah. And for the first time we had a Sukkah erected at the synagogue where we again repeated the blessings and enjoyed some sweet treats and good conversations. Sukkot is such a lovely holiday.
Simchat Torah Celebration
by Marilyn Weinberg
Simchat Torah is a celebration of the Torah, and it has become customary in many congregations to unroll the Torah and read from different sections. In the past we never attempted it in fear we would not get enough people to make it safe. But this year our community turned out and with the help of Joe Blumberg (our rabbinic intern) we had an amazing celebration. After reading several portions, the remaining Torahs were removed and singing and dancing prevailed. We ended with aliyot for all involved. It was memorable.
Dine Around
by Elaine Koufman
Thank you, Peggy Brown, for keeping this fun gathering going for several years. As the new chairperson for the Beth Israel “Dine Around” social group, I invited suggestions from members at dinner last week. So far brunch, lunch and a possible change from Tuesday nights were suggested.
I am working on a November brunch and December lunch. Details to follow soon. I would love to hear from you with your thoughts and ideas on how you might see this fun activity continue.
Contact me, Elaine Koufman, at dinnerclub@bethisraelbath.org to share your ideas.
REMEMBRANCES FOR MONTH–MONTH YEAR
May their memories be for a blessing.
We Remember | Hebrew Date | Calendar Date (2023) |
Nettie Friedland | 19 Heshvan | November 3 |
Muriel Cohen | 21 Heshvan | November 5 |
Joan Greenspan | 23 Heshvan | November 7 |
Rea Turet | 24 Heshvan | November 8 |
Irwin Metviner | 25 Heshvan | November 9 |
Esther Itzkowitz | 25 Heshvan | November 9 |
Isidore Panish | 25 Heshvan | November 9 |
Faye Brodsky | 4 Kislev | November 17 |
Esther Friedman | 4 Kislev | November 17 |
Stephen Baseman | 8 Kislev | November 21 |
Ben Brodsky | 9 Kislev | November 22 |
Sara H Guttentag | 9 Kislev | November 22 |
George Schoenberg | 10 Kislev | November 23 |
Sylvia Greenberg | 11 Kislev | November 24 |
Samuel B. Becker | 11 Kislev | November 24 |
Stephen Sinclair | 15 Kislev | November 28 |
Samuel Soifer | 16 Kislev | November 29 |
Anne Marks | 18 Kislev | December 1 |
Anne Marks | 18 Kislev | December 1 |
Morris Greenberg | 24 Kislev | December 7 |
Theresa Lobis | 1 Tevet | December 13 |
Maxine Gersh | 2 Tevet | December 14 |
Sheila Benveniste | 4 Tevet | December 16 |
Benjamin Kaplan | 5 Tevet | December 17 |
Morris Torow | 6 Tevet | December 18 |
Solomon Wernick | 13 Tevet | December 25 |
Ethel Cohn Schatz | 13 Tevet | December 25 |
Fanny Panish Mutterperl | 13 Tevet | December 25 |
Morris Petlock | 13 Tevet | December 25 |
Jacob Rosen | 16 Tevet | December 28 |
Ruth Shapiro | 17 Tevet | December 29 |
Goldie Waxman | 18 Tevet | December 30 |
BIRTHDAYS AND ANNIVERSARIES
Listing the birthdays and anniversaries of those in our immediate family creates a wonderful opportunity for our community/shul family to have an excuse to celebrate with each other.
November Birthdays | November Anniversaries |
2 | Gordon Blatt | 2 | Cristina & Stacey Giulianti |
7 | Elaine Koufman | 30 | Anita Lichman & Steven Paul |
11 | Judy Wolfe | ||
11 | Cathey Hayes | ||
15 | Alva Gandler | ||
16 | Larry Loeb | ||
18 | Rebecca Dunham | ||
19 | Joe Lisi | ||
21 | Joan Fields | ||
25 | Laura McCandlish | ||
27 | Rabbi Lisa Vinikoor | ||
28 | Erich Haller |
December Birthdays | December Anniversaries |
2 | Bob Lobis | 15 | Joan & Jeremy Fields |
2 | Jennifer Kaplan | 20 | Elliot & Helene Lerner |
4 | Ellen Bard | ||
6 | Todd Gandler | ||
13 | Karen Filler | ||
16 | Peter Van Allen | ||
19 | Marty Welt | ||
19 | Richard Finn | ||
20 | John Dunn | ||
23 | Sylvie Helman | ||
23 | Judah Helman | ||
27 | Wes Flores-Lichtinger | ||
30 | Ben Hansen | ||
31 | Cristina Giulianti |
welcome new members
Michael Feldman
Julie Meyer
DONATIONS
Memorial Gifts
Joe and Merna Guttentag in loving memory of his father, Samuel Guttentag and his brother, David Guttentag
Merna and Joe Guttentag in loving memory of her father, Daniel Cohn
Nathan Cogan in loving memory of Professor David Ziblatt
Betty and Marty Welt in loving memory of her parents, Ilse Fuchs and Henry Fuchs
Deborah Silverman in loving memory of her mother, Winifred Gay Silverman
David Michelson and Yeonmi Ahn in loving memory of his brother, Gregory Michelson
Paul Linet in loving memory of his father, Sanford Linet and his wife, Susan Linet
Joelle LaPorte in loving memory of Dolores Kleinberg
Theodore Stainman in loving memory of his parents, Henry and Hattie Stainman
Robert Vinikoor in loving memory of his wife, Shelia Vinikoor
Howard Waxman in loving memory of his father, Ralph Waxman
Stephen and Marina Singer in loving memory of his father, Isadore Singer
Richard Smith in loving memory of his mother, Sara Smith
Shelia Cohen in loving memory of her father, Henry Cohen
In loving memory of George Isaacson
Fred and Marilyn Weinberg
Jay and Lenore Friedland
Joanne Rosenthal and Josh Katz
Anonymous
For the Benefit of the Synagogue
Judy and Steve O’Keefe
Howard and Stephanie Pruzansky
Greg and Carolyn Friedel
Jay and Lenore Friedland
Larry Loeb and Linda Silberstein
Richard and Debbie Finn
Simone Martell
Erich and Pauline Haller
Lesley Dolinger
Dana Isenberg
The Carr Family
Stacy Winick and Steven Guttentag
Paul Linet
Louise Roman
Bob Kofman
Reinhold and Marchessault Family
Jeff Fischer
Irwin and Lori Brodsky
Henry Goldberg and Kim Hetherington
Herb and Harriet Paris
Tinker Hannaford
Rachel Sinnett
Elaine Povich
Kristin and Louis Propp for Simchat Torah
Judith Pachter and P. Jay Fleisher
Annie Valliere in honor of Leah Valliere and Simchat Torah
Steve and Marina Singer in gratitude for Marilyn and Fred Weinberg’s service to Beth Israel
Dr. Louis and Janet Gross
Rachel and Michael Connelly
High Holiday Flowers and Music
Janet Marstine and Mark Polishook
William and Anna Lempert in loving memory of Sallie Kay
Virginia Fish
Shira Gersh
Marty Fox and Thyle Shartar
Steve and Barbara Inkellis
Barbara and Barrett Silver
Matthew and Karen Filler a misheberach for Annabelle Filler
Shelia Cohen
Guttentag Winick Family
Susan Feibelman and George Turner in honor of Linda and Jerry Shapiro
Jon and Lorna Lichter
Harry Reissman in loving memory of Kathy Reissman
Bud and Mary Samiljan in honor of their children, Jake, Annie and Jaime
Marcia and Lenny Klompus in loving memory of Jeffrey Robert Cherner
Phyllis, Joe and Michelle Lisi in loving memory of Rose Millstein
Louis and Kristin Propp in loving memory of Madeline and Ephraim Propp
Jill Standish
Mara & Donny Guilianti
Carole and Marty Eckstein in loving memory of Paula Golden
Debby and Richard Finn
Abigail Lopez
Rabbi’s Discretionary Fund
Marge Curley